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< Back < Latest eBlast eBlast Article < Previous Article Next Article > Welcome to Unitarian Universalist Society East Welcome to Unitarian Universalist Society East Email our office t o receive a visitor packet or to find out more. We schedule several newcomer events throughout the year after Sunday services. #eBlast -12-17

< Back < Latest eBlast eBlast Article < Previous Article Next Article > Sunday Service: Sunday Service: "Where the Light Begins." Let's try it again! This morning, we celebrate the winter solstice and continue with our annual, all-congregational holiday music service (postponed last week due to snow). Come and be joyful where the light begins. Coordinators : Mary Bopp and Rev. Josh Pawelek  Services at 9:00 and 11:00 A.M. Sunday, December 21, 2025 Gathering music starts at 8:50 and 10:50 A.M. Join the virtual service at 11:00 A.M. via our Zoom link: Contact the Office for Zoom Link . Or join by phone. Call 1-860-646-5151 Meeting ID 357 815 420#. In Case You Missed It Click here for the December 14, 2025 service, "Where the Light Begins." #eBlast -12-17

< Back < Latest eBlast eBlast Article < Previous Article Next Article > Ongoing Happenings at UUSE! Ongoing Happenings at UUSE! There’s Always Something Good Going On Stop & Shop Gift Card sales after services on 1st Sundays Fair Trade Coffee/Tea/Chocolate sales after services on 2nd Sundays Yoga , every Wednesday at 10 A.M. All welcome! Manchester Women's Singing Circle , every Thursday at 7 P.M. Book Lovers , 2nd Tuesdays at 3:30 P.M. in person and on Zoom. January 13: James - A Novel by Percival Everett. Discussion leader: Nancy Thompson. Women's Circle , 3rd Tuesdays at 7:00 P.M. (Zoom only December through March) Email Nora Alpers-Leon at uuseoffice@uuse.org for the Zoom link. Romeos , a monthly lunch for retired men on second Tuesdays - contact the UUSE office to be put on the email list. Ladies at Lunch , a monthly women's lunch typically on second Thursdays - advertised in the weekly eblasts. Buddhist Group , 1st Tuesdays at 7 P.M. NEW! Meditation Group , 3rd Mondays, 3:30 P.M. to 5:00 P.M. God Talk , 4th Tuesdays at 4:30 P.M. Humanist Group , 3rd Tuesdays at 4:30 P.M. Science and Religion Discussion Group , 4th Thursdays at 4:30 P.M. November/Dec - "Origin Myths" with Jackie Muschiano -- Due to the Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays, meeting is on December 11th. #eBlast -12-17

< Back < Latest eBlast eBlast Article < Previous Article Next Article > CYM News CYM News Do you feel comfortable talking about your personal spiritual practice? Would you be willing to come in to the 2nd-5th grade classroom to explore big questions with our young UUs, with the support of seasoned classroom teachers? If so, please reach out to the Director of Children & Youth Ministry at dcym@uuse.org . #eBlast -12-17

Reverend Josh Pawelek's monthly column, a message of meaning and hope. Minister's Column for December Rev. Josh Pawelek Minister I am a theistic Unitarian Universalist; an aspiring antiracist, feminist, queer ally; a liberal, suburban American minister practicing a modern version of New England’s old “congregational way;” a loving husband and father; and a spiritual leader dedicated to transformative preaching, teaching, healing and social justice ministries. Serving as the parish minister of UUSE has blessed my life in many ways. Most importantly, UUSE has allowed me—and continues to allow me—to serve as a spiritual leader striving to provide excellence in ministry. I am deeply grateful. Dear Ones: I’ve been trying to prepare for our December ministry theme, hope. Full disclosure: though I experience myself as a hopeful person, the words aren’t coming—at least not yet, not in the middle of November when this column is due!! So I am borrowing liberally from a previous sermon I wrote on hope. These words are working for me! I hope they work for you. Hope is certainly an appropriate theme for December, the “darkest” month, the month in which so many festivals of light take place; the month in which so many lights symbolize hope at the darkest time of the year. I suspect there is something deep in our cultural DNA that yearns for light in the midst of darkness. I suspect our ancient human ancestors—especially those in the northern latitudes—experienced winter as a difficult time, a time of hunger, a time of worry—will we survive? The return of the sun at the Winter Solstice must have been a powerful and inspiring moment, one that generated profound hope in human hearts—the days are getting longer; we’re going to make it! I sense this deeper, ancient yearning at the heart of the Biblical Christmas story. I sense it at the heart of the Hanukkah story. I sense it at the heart of the Christmas tree ritual—a pagan ritual—the placing of an evergreen inside the home, decorating it, lighting it—an enduring symbol of hope at the darkest time of the year. Yet I also recognize that many people just don’t feel hopeful right now. As you’ve heard me say many times, we are living in an age of authoritarianism. For this reason, and others, hope is difficult to find. There are techniques for cultivating hope in an era of increasing hopelessness. In her 2010 book, The Gifts of Imperfection, the popular researcher/social worker/storyteller, Brené Brown, says, “hope is not an emotion; it's a way of thinking or a cognitive process. Emotions play a supporting role, but hope is really a thought process made up of [a] trilogy of goals, pathways, and agency.” Hope happens when “1) we have the ability to set realistic goals (I know where I want to go); 2) we are able to figure out how to achieve those goals, including the ability to stay flexible and develop alternative routes (I know how to get there, I'm persistent, and I can tolerate disappointment and try again); and 3) we believe in ourselves (I can do this!).” This may seem obvious to many of us, but there’s an important reminder here: hope can be learned! I like that. If you are among those who find it difficult to feel hopeful—and even if you aren’t—I have a threefold prayer for you. First, may the hope of this season wash over you, lift your spirits, connect you to that ancient experience of witnessing the sun’s return. Second, in this dark season, may you step back from the busyness of everyday life, engage in self-reflection, and discern where it is you want to go and how to get there. Third, may you believe in yourself. Or perhaps I can sum up this prayer in one short sentence: May you hope! With love, care and hope, Rev. Josh #DecemberNewsletter

< Back < Latest eBlast eBlast Article < Previous Article Next Article > General Assembly 2026 General Assembly 2026 Virtual gathering June 14th - June 21st General Assembly (GA) is the annual meeting of the Unitarian Universalist Association (UUA), where participants gather to worship, witness, learn, connect, and make policy decisions for the Association through a democratic process. The 2026 GA will be held virtually June 14th-21st. Are you interested in representing UUSE at this year's General Assembly? Questions? Email Desiree at uuseoffice@uuse.org #eBlast -12-17

The monthly C&YM column holds a trove of interesting ideas for your kids. Director's Corner Emmy's Update For Sunday December 14th Greetings CYM Families & Friends! Our lovely choir director, Jenn Richard, has prepared a phenomenal array of musical pieces perfect for kicking off the holiday season! Do not miss this Sunday’s annual Holiday Music Service for all ages. Children & Youth Ministry (CYM) classes will not be held this Sunday, and we hope that families will enjoy this festive service together in the Sanctuary. The exceptions are that the Nursery will be open and our High School Youth Group programming will run, including Affirmation after the program hour. (Don’t forget to pack a lunch Affirmation youth!) And everyone don’t forget to bring cash or card to purchase some goods at the HSYG Bake Sale being offered after both the 9 and 11am services this Sunday! Proceeds will be split between the HSYG activity fund and UUSE. Children’s Chapel will resume in January. Nursery : Childcare will be available in our nursery at 11 AM for children age 3 and under. Sunday Service : “Where the Light Begins” - This Sunday, we celebrate the holidays with our annual, all-congregational music service. Let us welcome the solstice; let us welcome Hanukkah; let us welcome Christmas in this season where the light begins. Coordinators: Mary Bopp, Rev. Josh Pawelek, Emmy Galbraith Next High School Youth Group Meeting: Saturday, December 13th 1-3pm at UUSE for baking and Sunday, December 14th for regular HSYG meeting and Bake Sale Next Affirmation Meeting: December 14th at 1pm (pack a lunch) See you Sunday! Seasonal Happenings : Sun, Dec 14: Holiday Music Service @ 9&11am Sun, Dec 21: CYM Winter Holiday Party @ 12pm (outdoors!) Wed, Dec 24: Christmas Eve Service @ 5pm Sun, Dec 28: No CYM Programming - Winter Break Sat, Jan 3: 6PM Talent Show for children and youth in collaboration with the monthly Coffee House. Bring dinner for the family and enjoy the many talents of our community! Children and youth are invited to perform a song, poem, skit, magic tricks, trivia, or any other talent! RSVP to Emmy or Dan Thompson Sat, Jan 24 - Sun, Jan 25: Overnight Con for 7th-12th graders! Located at USH (Unitarian Society of Hartford) with UUSE support. Arrive at 6pm on Saturday and stay for games, movies, video games, foosball, and zoom with other youth! Rise and shine Sunday morning to participate in USH’s long standing tradition of “Soup Sunday!” Sat, Jan 31: UUSE Annual Cook-off and Live Auction Event - fun for the whole family! Sat, Feb 21: 8AM Mount Southington Ski Trip in partnership with USH (Unitarian Society of Hartford) Open to skiers of all ages! Sun, Feb 22: 3pm Kirtan at UUSE Sat, Mar 28: Nightlight Mission in partnership with USH (Unitarian Society of Hartford): Families with children/youth meet @ 2PM to sort clothes & prepare soup, coffee and sandwiches; @8PM distribute clothing and food to the unhoused. With Gratitude, Emmy Galbraith Director of Children & Youth Ministry dcym@uuse.org Office: (860)646-5151 Cell: (860)576-7889 CYM Committee Members: Sudha, co-chair Michelle Spadaccini, co-chair Desiree Holian-Borgnis Paula Baker Kaitlyn Guilmette Committee email: uusecym@uuse.org Angela Attardo, CYM Program Assistant CYMAsst@uuse.org Molly Vigeant, Nursery Coordinator Director of Children and Youth Ministry's Monthly Column for December In the Flow: Reflections on Attending the LREDA (Liberal Religious Educators Association) Fall Conference Keynote presenter Elder Sharon Jinkerson-Brass refers to herself as a “’60s scooper”. This refers to a time in Canadian history when the government removed Indigenous children from their land, families, and communities and forced them into adoptions in white-parented homes. This took place en masse in the 1960s across Canada. Similar events happened in the United States. Elder Sharon was one of those children in Canada, removed from her home and family at a young age. Elder Sharon is a gifted storyteller, and I will not attempt to do the job for her. Her stories are her own, and more about her life can be found here . One of the people documenting and collaborating with Indigenous communities in Canada today is Elder Sharon’s friend, Amber Dawn Bellemare. Amber Dawn is a white woman and the Truth, Healing, and Reconciliation Programming Coordinator of the Canadian Unitarian Council. For the last 10 years, Amber Dawn has learned how we as Unitarians can work towards healing and reconciliation with Indigenous people of North America, living through our denomination’s values, guided by the wisdom of those who have been harmed and oppressed by the colonization of North America and the forced spread of Christianity and suppression of indigenous, earth-centered spiritual and cultural practices. You can find out more about Amber Dawn’s work here . I left this conference feeling better equipped and educated to work with the children and youth at UUSE, and any that come into my care if even for a moment, in working towards a right relationship with the land and the first people to live on this land. I also left with a new friend in Amber Dawn, and a model and resources to spread this work of truth, healing, and reconciliation, where colonization and Christianity violently uprooted a harmonious ecosystem. We participated in an exercise designed for UU congregations, about the timeline and spread of colonization in North America, and its impact on the Indigenous people already living there. Some religious educators present had done this exercise with their home congregations. Others, like me, were profoundly moved by the new exercise, experiencing moments of self-loathing followed by resolve when history revealed Unitarians to be financial backers of the wide destruction, claims to land and resources, human lives lost, and generations tortured. I learned that the current reconciliation work is not only in line with our present-day denominational values and principles, but that we have a duty and obligation to do what we can to remedy deep wounds from the past, inflicted by our Unitarian ancestors. It has been a year of diving deep into elemental learning and knowing for me, as both a spiritual being and a religious professional. In the height and tail of summer, it was fire. Air made itself known as we slipped through the time of the ancestors. And this experience was all about water. In the literal sense, LREDA Fall-Con organizers advised attendees to “think Seattle” when packing for Vancouver. And the weather lived up to its reputation. As an Indigenous woman, Elder Sharon spoke frequently of water, both its spiritual and practical importance to her people, of which there is no real separate distinction. She talked about her gift of storytelling, which would bring the whole room to tears of joy through a telling of grief and loss, explaining that her gift was from her people. Indigenous people, when joined with their land and families, live “in the flow,” she explained. The prescribed and lonesome egocentric way of the colonizer (my words, hers are gentler) does not allow for the flow. The flow is happening, and you can move into it like water, or it can come onto you like a wave. The rain forest, the waterfalls, hot springs, the mist - the breath of the ancestors, are all the twinkling features of Vancouver and British Columbia. Water is heavy and slow, and powerful. And life-giving. Elder Sharon held a symbolic umbilical doll ritual with us all. Copper, the Earth’s blood, represented the blood of the first connection to the mother. At the close of our 4 days together, she and an Indigenous sister blessed us all with a water ritual upon our hands. The picture accompanying my column this week is of her listening to a religious educator’s child. Elder Sharon listens to everyone this way, with this level of attention, love, patience, and joy. Children are centered and revered in her culture in a way that is different from the best efforts to include children in an adult-centered world. I learned so much from her. I learned so much from everyone. Taking classes, reading books, and writing papers for my religious educator credentialing has its value. And this community space, where I am most deeply educated, is sacred. I am so grateful that I was able to take the journey to Vancouver, to Elder Sharon, to Amber Dawn, and to share resources and networking with a hundred other UU religious educators from across North America. This is where the seeds sit, where the nurturer is nurtured. It is my honor to usher the ripple I carry back to Manchester, Connecticut, where we will continue to learn and grow together. Emmy Galbraith (she/her/hers) Director of Children and Youth Ministry #DecemberNewsletter

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Think green. That's what the sustainability committee does. This is their page. Sustainable Living & Climate Action UUSE is committed to ongoing efforts to save our planet through green action. We are a certified Green Sanctuary. Green Sanctuary News Green Sanctuary News Have you noticed that plastics are everywhere? They are on our streets, in our homes, in our oceans. Research has shown it is in us, in our blood, in our organs– including our brains. It’s also in our soil, in the rain, in the air we breathe, and in the water we drink. How has this happened? And how concerned should we be? The first plastic materials came out in the 1950s and by the 1960s were showing up all over the place. Every year, more and more plastic is produced, which has a devastating effect on our earth, in its production by petroleum-based products that take, in some cases, hundreds of years to disintegrate. Single-use plastics, our fast food drink cups, bottles of water, etc., also degrade by being heated–whether by simply being exposed to the sun or having hot beverages put into them, releasing toxic chemicals as well as micro-plastics that quickly become part of our surroundings. “EPA researchers define microplastics, or MPs, as plastic particles ranging in size from 5 millimeters (mm), which is about the size of a pencil eraser, to 1 nanometer (nm). For comparison, a strand of human hair is about 80,000 nanometers wide. Primary microplastics are intentionally manufactured in small sizes for their use in consumer products, such as cosmetics or biomedical products. Secondary microplastics are plastic particles that break down from larger plastic materials, such as food wrapping, tires, and synthetic textiles.” It is the microplastics that we are breathing in, eating, and drinking. I remember the first time I read that apples growing in orchards have plastic in them, the horror I felt. Now reading that even the far northern Alaskan salmon are also carrying plastics in them continues the feelings of horror and helplessness. Since 2000, the amount of plastic the world produces has doubled. In the next twenty years,s it’s expected to triple. There is a huge lobby behind plastics, claiming they are necessary, which is going to be devastating to the environment as well as all the creatures that inhabit it, including ourselves. I didn’t start this article to terrify our congregation; I simply want you to consider the plastics you use every day and to find ways that they can be replaced and eliminated from our everyday lives. I realize I use plastic spatulas when a wooden spoon would work just as well. My plastic soup ladle needs to be replaced with a stainless steel one. One by one, my freezer containers are being replaced by glass containers. Needless to say, I NEVER heat any food in my microwave in plastic, I always use glass. To cover a glass container that doesn’t have a cover, use a microwaveable glass plate. Finding ways to replace products made of plastic is sometimes difficult. Take your tooth brushing routine, for example. From what I’ve read a bamboo toothbrush with soft bristles and silk floss is one of the best answers to the plastic toothbrush. Then there is the toothpaste. Brands that offer microplastic-free options include Bite Toothpaste, Unpaste, Davids, and Georganics, which typically use natural ingredients and sustainable packaging. We have to do our homework in this arena just as carefully as we read the news. Just Google microplastics and step into a world you may never have imagined. As in many things in our world today, you’ll have to calm yourself. In thinking about the microplastics we are daily ingesting, we realize that our bodies do have a system of removing toxins and microplastics. Be aware that fresh foods like fruits and vegetables help our bodies rid themselves of microplastics. Healthy eating has never been more important. We have a choice of products to use, and we can avoid plastic with due diligence. Being fully aware of the plastic around you is the first step. #DecemberNewsletter Go Solar! The Sustainable Living Committee is thrilled to report that UUSE has contracted with Connecticut solar provider, Savkat, to resume our popular solar program! Savkat has agreed to donate $25 to UUSE for every appointment and $1,000 for every signed solar contract. The program begins immediately, and is available to all UUSE members, family, and friends. Just tell them you were referred by UUSE! We will be hosting several informational sessions with our Savkat representative on Sunday mornings during coffee hour to answer any questions congregants may have. If you're interested in learning more about getting solar installed, you can make an appointment at this time. Already know you want to reduce your carbon footprint by installing solar? You can contact our Savkat representative, Jordan Bernstein, right away! His contact info is below. Thank you for caring about our planet! Jordan Bernstein Lead Manager 203.441.7961 Jordan@savkat.com www.savkat.com Schedule a Meeting Green Actions You Can Take Join our ecological landscaping team Help with recycling and composting Help sell "Fair Trade" coffee, tea, and chocolate after Sunday services Help with the annual organic veggie garden About the Green Sanctuary program UUSE has been a certified Green Sanctuary congregation since the spring of 2006. The Green Sanctuary program was developed and begun by the UU Ministry for Earth for UU congregations. The program at UUSE was led by the Sustainable Living Committee with approval and involvement of the policy board, staff, various committees and the full congregation. Goals and projects were developed in four different areas: worship, religious education, sustainable living and social/environmental justice. Our Action Plan for 2005 included 15 different projects, heavily focused on our response to global warming. It included implementing recommendations from an energy audit, starting our children’s organic vegetable garden program, starting recycling and composting programs, working with other state and local organizations on common goals, and much more. The congregation-wide support and success of the program led us to seek out the greenest way we could afford to implement our planned building and expansion project. Between 2007 and the spring of 2010 we were deep into the planning, fundraising for and implementation of our building project. The Growth of the Green Sanctuary Program allowed it to become a project of the UUA. And by 2011 we were encouraged to apply for Re- accreditation. Our application for Re-accreditation included various projects in the areas of worship and celebration, religious education, sustainable living, and active environmental justice efforts, such as helping to pass CT’s first environmental justice law, working with local groups to start school and other community gardens and to help low-income residents benefit from CT’s Home Energy Solutions program. We documented all the work done in the UUSE building project including energy conservation work, the geo-thermal system and eventual solar panel system, and Energy Star certification with a 98% score in 2013, as well as various ecological landscaping projects. On February 17, 2013 we received the notice we were awarded Green Sanctuary Recertification. We were encouraged to continue our efforts to become a net zero facility and continue with our outreach and advocacy work.

< Back < Latest eBlast eBlast Article < Previous Article Next Article > Death Cafe Death Cafe Tuesday, December 23rd at 1:00 P.M. UUSE's next Death Cafe will be held at the meeting house on Tuesday, December 23rd at 1:00 P.M. Death Cafe is a global movement with a simple goal: to provide participants in any stage of life with an opportunity for an open-ended discussion about death and dying. There is no formal agenda, but there is tea, cake, and a comfortable place to discuss this issue that will touch all of us at some point in our lives. All are welcome. Questions? Contact Rev. Josh Pawelek at minister@uuse.org . #eBlast -12-17

< Back < Latest eBlast eBlast Article < Previous Article Next Article > Pastoral Friends Pastoral Friends The Pastoral Friends Committee has a rotating chair throughout the year. Should you need pastoral care during the months of November and December , please contact Laurie Semprebon . #eBlast -12-17

< To Upcoming Services Watch the eBlast for the next scheduled Upcoming Holiday and Seasonal Services Upcoming Holiday and Seasonal Services Evening Vespers Service: Monday, December 22nd at 7:00 P.M. - In a season busy with 'bright and merry', we may also find ourselves sitting with sadness, grief, and pain in body or spirit. Join us as we pause in the quiet to acknowledge and support each other in bearing these burdens. We invite you to bring your chalice from home, where we will light it for the service. Silent Night, Holy Night: Wednesday, December 24th at 5:00 P.M. - Join us for Christmas Eve worship with beautiful music, timeless stories, and more. Anything might happen!!! Note: Unless otherwise indicated, the offertory collection will be given to the Minister's Discretionary Fund. Reflections and Hopes: Sunday, December 28th, one service only at 10:00 A.M. - Join us for shared reflections on the year gone by and our hopes for the upcoming year. #eBlast-12-17 Upcoming Holiday and Seasonal Services Evening Vespers Service : Monday, December 22nd at 7:00 P.M. - In a season busy with 'bright and merry', we may also find ourselves sitting with sadness, grief, and pain in body or spirit. Join us as we pause in the quiet to acknowledge and support each other in bearing these burdens. We invite you to bring your chalice from home, where we will light it for the service. Silent Night, Holy Night: Wednesday, December 24th at 5:00 P.M. - Join us for Christmas Eve worship with beautiful music, timeless stories, and more. Anything might happen!!! Note: Unless otherwise indicated, the offertory collection will be given to the Minister's Discretionary Fund. Reflections and Hopes: Sunday, December 28th, one service only at 10:00 A.M. - Join us for shared reflections on the year gone by and our hopes for the upcoming year. #eBlast -12-17 OOS Sermon YouTube