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Gathering Music (Mary Bopp) Welcome (Emmy Galbraith) Announcements (Rev. Josh Pawelek) Centering (Emmy Galbraith) Prelude and Calling the Directions "To the Four Directions" Music by Mary Bopp Words adapted from Joan Goodwin's "To the Four Directions" Sandy Johnson, vocals Chalice Lighting and Opening Words Excerpt from "The Art of Living" by Thich Nhat Han Bill Graver, Alex and Wesley Bernier (11:00 AM) Opening Hymn #387 "The Earth, Water, Fire, Air" anonymous The earth, the water, the fire, the air, return, return, return, return Building the Altar of Remembrance "Breaths" by Sweet Honey in the Rock UUSE choir Body Prayer "Reaching Back" by Emmy Galbraith Musical Interlude Joys and Concerns Musical Interlude Offering MARC, Inc. provides the opportunity for people with intellectual and developmental disabilities to live meaningful lives of independence, choice, inclusion, and continuous personal growth. MARC, Inc. was founded in 1952 by seven families who were working together to support their children who were living with disabilities. Today, they have a campus on Sheldon Road in Manchester where they provide multiple services and programs, in addition to managing eleven residential homes. MARC supports almost three hundred individuals from twenty-seven towns in the Greater Hartford area. UR Community Cares mission is to keep older and disabled neighbors supported in their homes and active in their communities. Their programs include: "Neighbors Helping Neighbors," which provides volunteer support so that older adults and people with physical disabilities can live safely at home; "Cycling Without Age Manchester," which deploys an e-bike rickshaw to provide free recreational rides for older and disabled residents in Charter Oak Park and along the East Coast Greenway; the UR Community Tech Center, which offers free technology support and volunteers to answer questions about smartphones, tablets, laptops; and UR Vision Resources, a 100-page printed Blind/Vision Impaired Directory to ensure more people know what services are available. Offering Music "Meditation on Breathing" Adapted with permission from Sarah Dan Jones by the UUSE children's choir When I breath in... I breathe in Hope When I breathe out... I breathe out Peace When I breathe in... I breathe in Peace When I breathe out... I breathe out Love When I breathe in... I breathe in Love When I breathe out... I breathe out Joy When I breathe in... I breathe in Joy When I breathe out... I breathe out Flame When I breathe in... I breathe in Flame When I breathe out... I breathe out Warmth Story Remembering our deceased UUSE members and friends Remembrances Closing Hymn #83 "Winds Be Still" Words by Richard S. Kimball Music by Samuel Sebastian Wesley Winds be still Storm clouds pass and silence come. Peace grace this time with harmony. Fly, bird of hope, and shine, light of love, and in calm let all find tranquility. Bird fly high. Lift our gaze toward distance view. Help us to sense life's mystery. Fly high and far, and lead us each to see how we move through the winds of eternity. Light shine in. Luminate our inward view. Help us to see with clarity. Shine bright and true so we may join our songs in new sounds that become full symphony. Closing Words Excerpt from "Braiding Sweetgrass" By Robin Wall Kimmerer Extinguishing the Chalice Closing Circle May faith in the spirit of life And hope for the community of earth And love of the light in each other Be ours now, and in all the days to come.

Gathering Music (Mary Bopp)   Welcome and Announcements (Rev. Josh Pawelek)   Centering   Prelude "A Conversation" Improvised by Mary Bopp   Chalice Lighting and Opening Words “Turn Scarlet, Leaves” Words by Raymond J. Baughan Music by Mary Bopp Turn scarlet, leaves Spin earth Tumble the shadows into dawn Tumble the shadows into dawn   Opening Hymn #1023 “Building Bridges” Words: The Women of Greenham Common peace occupation in England, 1983 Music: Contemporary English Quaker round   Building Bridges between our divisions, I reach out to you, will you reach out to me? With all of our voices and all of our visions, friends, we could make such sweet harmony.   Time for All Ages   Musical Meditation   Joys and Concerns   Musical Meditation   Offering   MARC, Inc. provides the opportunity for people with intellectual and developmental disabilities to live meaningful lives of independence, choice, inclusion, and continuous personal growth. MARC, Inc. was founded in 1952 by seven families who were working together to support their children who were living with disabilities. Today, they have a campus on Sheldon Road in Manchester where they provide multiple services and programs, in addition to managing eleven residential homes. MARC supports almost three hundred individuals from twenty-seven towns in the Greater Hartford area.   UR Community Cares UR Community Cares' mission is to keep older and disabled neighbors supported in their homes and active in their communities. Their programs include:  “Neighbors Helping Neighbors,” which provides volunteer support so that older adults and people with physical disabilities can live safely at home; “Cycling Without Age Manchester,” which deploys an e-bike rickshaw to provide free recreational rides for older and disabled residents in Charter Oak Park and along the East Coast Greenway; the UR Community Tech Center, which offers free technology support and volunteers to answer questions about smartphones, tablets, laptops; and UR Vision Resources, a100-page printed Blind/Vision Impaired Directory to ensure more people know what services are available.     Offering Music Andante from Sonata no. 13 in A Major by Franz Schubert   Sermon “On Love and Hate” Rev. Josh Pawelek   Closing Hymn #1031 “Filled with Loving Kindness” Traditional Buddhist Meditation Adapted by Mark Hayes Music by Ian Riddell   May I be filled with loving kindness. May I be well. May I be filled with loving kindness. May I be well. May I be peaceful and at ease. May I be whole.   May you be filled with loving kindness. May you be well. May you be filled with loving kindness. May you be well. May you be peaceful and at ease. May you be whole.   May we be filled with loving kindness. May we be well. May we be filled with loving kindness. May we be well. May we be peaceful and at ease. May we be whole.   Extinguishing the Chalice Flame   Responsorial “The Flame in Our Hearts” Words by Josh Pawelek Music by Mary Bopp   The flame in our hearts, never ceases burning.   Closing Circle May faith in the spirit of life And hope for the community of earth And love of the light in each other Be ours now and in all the days to come.

Gathering Music   Welcome and Announcements   Centering   Prelude "Believing" by Mary Bopp   Chalice Lighting and Opening Words excerpt from Finding My Way Out of the Darkness By Tony Ferraiolo   Opening Hymn #1002 “Comfort Me” by Mimi Bornstein-Doble   Comfort me, comfort me, comfort me, oh my soul. Comfort me, comfort me, comfort me, oh my soul.   Sing with me, sing with me…   Speak for me, speak for me…   Dance with me, dance with me…   Comfort me…   Time For All Ages   Joys and Concerns   Offering "Kindness Rocking" by Mary Bopp   MARC, Inc. provides the opportunity for people with intellectual and developmental disabilities to live meaningful lives of independence, choice, inclusion, and continuous personal growth. MARC, Inc. was founded in 1952 by seven families who were working together to support their children who were living with disabilities. Today, they have a campus on Sheldon Road in Manchester where they provide multiple services and programs, in addition to managing eleven residential homes. MARC supports almost three hundred individuals from twenty-seven towns in the Greater Hartford area. UR Community Cares ' mission is to keep older and disabled neighbors supported in their homes and active in their communities. Their programs include:  “Neighbors Helping Neighbors,” which provides volunteer support so that older adults and people with physical disabilities can live safely at home; “Cycling Without Age Manchester,” which deploys an e-bike rickshaw to provide free recreational rides for older and disabled residents in Charter Oak Park and along the East Coast Greenway; the UR Community Tech Center, which offers free technology support and volunteers to answer questions about smartphones, tablets, laptops; and UR Vision Resources, a100-page printed Blind/Vision Impaired Directory to ensure more people know what services are available.     Offering Music   Chancel Talk “Finding My Way Out of Darkness” or “Kindness Rocks” Tony Ferraiolo and Rev. Josh Pawelek   Closing Hymn #1053 “How Could Anyone?” By Libby Roderick   How could anyone ever tell you you were anything less than beautiful? How could anyone ever tell you you were less than whole? How could anyone fail to notice that your loving is a miracle? How deeply you’re connected to my soul.   Extinguishing the Chalice   Closing Circle May faith in the spirit of life, And hope for the community of earth And love of the light in each other Be ours now, and in all the days to come.

Gathering Music Welcome and Announcements Centering Prelude "Nothing Can Harm Our Love" Written and performed by Tret Fure Chalice Lighting and Opening Words "With Dirt on Our Hands" by Rev. Dr. David Breeden Come into this moment as if stepping into a garden at dawn, quiet, tender, open to what may grow. Let compassion be the flower we bend toward. We return as if returning to the soil, hands in the dirt, willing to tend what needs tending. Here, today, we gather to remember: that the most delicate blooms require daily care. That attention is the water of love. That we are still learning how to care. Come. Let us begin again in love-- tending the garden of the heart, and the heart of compassion. Opening Song "A Piece of the Sky" Written and performed by Tret Fure (Chorus) Raise your voice so high Like it's a piece of the sky Let it rain down around you, let it rain Raise your voice so high Like it's a piece of the sky Let it rain down around us all Introduction to the Service Time for All Ages "Spread it Around" Written and performed by Tret Fure Joys and Concerns Musical Interlude Offering Our October Community Outreach Ministry recipients are MARC, Inc. and UR Community Cares. MARC, Inc. The Manchester chapter of The Arc, MARC provides the opportunity for people with intellectual and developmental disabilities to live meaningful lives of independence, choice, inclusion and continuous personal growth. UR Community Cares UR Community Cares, located in Manchester, bridges the gap between those eager to make a difference and those in need of support. Their mission is to connect volunteers with opportunities to assist older adults and individuals with disabilities, thereby strengthening communities and improving lives. Offering Music "The Tie That Binds" Written and performed by Tret Fure 1st Reflection - Tret Fure Musical Interlude 2nd Reflection - Ellen Williams Closing Song "Freedom" Written and performed by Tret Fure (Chorus) Carry Freedom in your heart Carry Justice as a goal Carry Love in every fiber of the fabric of your soul Carry Freedom in your heart Carry Justice as a goal Carry Love in every fiber of the fabric of your soul Extinguishing the Chalice and Closing Words Closing Circle May faith in the spirit of life And hope for the community of earth And love of the light in each other Be ours now, and in all the days to come.

The oak burl chalice on the world map table in the chapel at UUSE Over the last decade I’ve become a fan of the Drive-By Truckers , a three-guitar, southern rock band, founded in Athens, Georgia in 1996. I first noticed them when they started writing songs in support of the Black Lives Matter movement in the late 20-teens. I’m also very moved by their songs decrying American gun violence and the very nuanced way in which they proclaim their southern pride while not ignoring or white-washing histories of violence and racism. In July I went to their show at the College Street Music Hall in New Haven. Their encore was the song Andy and I just presented, "World of Hurt" f rom their 2006 album, A Blessing and a Curse . (Note that I left out some of the words and edited a few others – they don’t all work for a Sunday morning worship service.) I think I’d heard the song before the concert, but it hadn’t yet grabbed my attention. Well, it grabbed me that night in New Haven. I have no other words for it than to call it a spiritual experience. I found the music beautiful, and the lyrics a probing, searing meditation on the nature of love that met me right where I was in that moment, spoke to me in a way I needed to be spoken to, lifted me up, buoyed me, connected me. Music is known to have that effect on people. Over the next few weeks I listened to it easily 50 times—I’m sure I drove my family bananas. Please don’t play that song again. Please turn it off!  Every time I listened I thought, I want to share this in a UUSE Sunday service . So, here we are.             I would not expect anyone listening to our rendition this morning to be as spiritually moved as I was that evening in July. That’s not my purpose in sharing the song. I can no more recreate my spiritual experience in you than you can recreate your spiritual experience in me. But I do want to offer the song’s lyrics as a scripture not only for this sermon, but for the entire congregational year. This is Part II of a sermon series, “Imagining a Congregational Year.” And as I imagine the year stretching out before us, love figures prominently: naming and defining love; expressing love, practicing love, reflecting theologically on love, putting love into action. I imagine this for many reasons, but I’ll name two big ones here:             First, I imagine love figures prominently this year because our denomination, the Unitarian Universalist Association (UUA), is centering love in its articulation of our faith both nationally and internationally. As most of you know, when our General Assembly changed Article 2 of its bylaws in June of 2024, it replaced the seven Unitarian Universalist principles with six values—justice, equity, transformation, pluralism, interdependence, generosity—emerging from love at the center. The new Article 2 says “Love is the power that holds us together and is at the center of our shared values. We are accountable to one another for [doing the work of] living our shared values through the spiritual discipline of Love.” As a reminder, our congregation is committed to continuing its use of the seven principles and will integrate them with the new values and their related covenantal statements. Our Principles and Values Integration Task Force will be making recommendations for how best to do that later this fall. Because love is at the center in the new Article 2 and because our denominational leaders are using love to articulate who we are as people of faith, I imagine we will be talking more and more about love through the course of the congregational year. What does it mean when we say love is at the center of our faith? What do we mean when we refer to a spiritual discipline of love?             Second, I imagine love figures prominently for us this congregational year because our response to authoritarianism in the United States demands it. I’m going back to my sermon two weeks ago on imagining the congregational year. In response to political violence and increasing threats of political violence that week, I said “our principles, values and traditions call us to engage in nonviolent  resistance. I am convinced violence only leads to more violence. In resisting authoritarianism, the central question for me is how we do it with love, compassion and empathy.” [2]             This is not going to be an easy conversation. Last Sunday, in a national address, President Trump said “I hate my opponent and I don’t want the best for them.” In the face of such explicitly-stated presidential hatred which, I believe, includes liberal religious people like ourselves, what does it mean to say “My faith calls me to love my opponent and to want the best for them?” Not an easy conversation.             I go back to the song, “World of Hurt.” The Drive-By Tuckers wrote it in 2006. They likely weren’t anticipating our world of hurt in 2025. There was plenty of hurt to go around in 2006. The September 11 th , 2001 terrorist attacks might have been on their minds. The devastation of Hurricane Katrina and the government’s failed response in late August of 2005 might have been on their minds. The US wars in Afghanistan and Iraq might have been on their minds. But maybe none of that was on their minds. Maybe they just wanted to write a song that acknowledged that none of us—no human being—goes through life without some measure of pain, suffering and trauma, though there’s no fairness in how the hurt is spread around. Maybe they just wanted to write a song acknowledging that none of us—no human being—goes through life without moments of sadness and grief, fear and cowering, loneliness and isolation, disappointment, disillusionment, discontent—though again, there’s no fairness in how the hurt is spread around. This world of hurt is not just this authoritarian world we live in now. It’s in the experience of being alive. It's in the human condition. This song—our scripture for this morning—is saying, at least to me, that the only way to meet this world of hurt with integrity, maturity and wisdom is with love. But it’s not love as an empty pop music platitude. It’s not a feel-good liberal religious notion of love. It’s not some smart Facebook meme about what Jesus really taught which feels good in the moment, but which runs the risk of ultimately making us feel more smug and self-righteous. To love genuinely and authentically is to make oneself vulnerable to loss, because the people we love die. To love genuinely and authentically is to make oneself vulnerable to all manner of hurts because people in power may care nothing about you, may not want the best for you. To love in this world of hurt is to risk potentially everything. “To love,” as the song says, “is to feel pain. There ain't no way around it. The very nature of love is to grieve when it is over.” And right now, for so many of us, when it comes to love of country, love of democracy, love of what we thought were our agreed upon rights such as freedom of speech, it feels more and more like all of it is ending or over. Part of why hearing this song for the first time felt like a spiritual experience is because it took me to a place I needed to go to, but I didn’t quite know I needed to go there. It’s not just a matter of preaching “love your neighbor” or “love the stranger,” or “love your enemy,” or “love your country.” It’s easy enough to say. What I’ve realized is that I need to love my neighbor, the stranger, my enemy, my country and preach it with a full and unflinching understanding that doing so inevitably comes with a cost, requires sacrifice, and will cause pain. That’s a conversation I imagine we’ll be having this congregational year. But our scripture doesn’t leave us locked in a world of hurt. It shows us not a way out, because there is no way out—“to love is to feel pain”—but that there is also more to love than pain. And what our scripture shows us is a beautiful, spacious, life-giving hope that comes with our willingness to love despite the risk, along side the pain. For me, it’s a beautiful, spacious, life-giving hope that comes as we gather all our hurting pieces, knit them into an inevitably imperfect whole that says “yes” to life, “yes” to everything I love, “yes” to the people I love, and in this world of hurt, “yes” to the country I love, “yes” to the democracy I love,” “yes to the civil rights I love,” “yes” to the whole blessed thing. The song ends with the humble, hopeful reminder that if what you have is working for you / Or you think that it stands a reasonable chance / And if whatever's broken seems fixable / And nothing's beyond repair / If you still think about each other and smile / Before you remember how screwed up it's gotten / Or maybe still dream of a time less rotten / Remember, it ain't too late to take a deep breath / And throw yourself into it with everything you've got / It's great to be alive. I know it’s an unorthodox scripture. I know the proper Christian clergy might sneer and say “that’s not a real scripture.” But I remind us that the whole world is holy, and virtually any words can became scripture if they say what you need to hear. And this is what I imagine we’ll be talking about in the coming congregational year. To love is to feel pain. But it ain’t too late to take a deep breath and throw yourself into it with everything you’ve got. Turn to a neighbor and assure them, “it’s great to be alive.” Turn to another neighbor and assure them, “it’s great to be alive.” Let’s say it all together: “It’s great to be alive.” Amen and blessed be.

Greetings CYM Families & Friends! Pictured above are some members of our Junior Youth Group, walking the UUSE grounds last week, as they will most Sundays. Here they are scooping bones (likely opossum) out of the vernal spring on the land we steward. We talked about how bones are stories. The youth connected that idea to the “CSI” television show and how scientists use bones to put together a story. Bones are used in modern science, as well as in spirituality rooted in ancient practices. We discovered that science and spirituality overlap a lot more than we might think. And our church is a place to talk about the life cycle with both lenses, like a pair of glasses. This week we will continue to settle into our 2025-2026 programming spaces. Here’s what’s happening in CYM this Sunday, September 28, 2025: NEW THIS SUNDAY : I will lead Children’s Chapel at 10:15 am on the Garden Level! Caregivers may relax with a cup of coffee or book while I bring the children through the ritual of sharing worship space, personal joys and concerns, and introducing Autumnal spiritual themes. Children’s worship is open to all ages, nursery through high school, with or without a parent, as you are comfortable. Items to loan to the autumn altar are most welcome! Nursery : Childcare will be available in our nursery at 11 AM for children age 3 and under. Sunday Service : “Imagining a Congregational Year, Part II” - Because one service on kicking off the congregational year could not possibly cover everything, Rev. Josh will continue exploring the themes he introduced in his September 14th service. Special Guest Music Leader: Andy Ricci. Coordinator: Rev. Josh Pawelek . Time For All Ages : Children and youth in grades 2-12 will attend the beginning of the Sunday service in the Sanctuary on the Main Level. The first two rows on the right are reserved for children and youth to sit together, and families are welcome to join them. After the “Time For All Ages” segment of Sunday service, children and youth will be dismissed to the Garden Level to attend further programming. Spirit Play : “Student Orientation” - Following last week’s Family Orientation, this week our Spirit Play students will attend class, leaving their caregivers at the door. The first story basket of the program year is all about a group of animals in the forest, on their first day of Spirit Play. Young UUs : “Our Congregation” - This Sunday, UUSE Music Director Mary Bopp will visit our Young UUs classroom to teach a simple hymn, “Mediation on Breathing,” which will be sung at the Ancestor’s Day service next month. After Mary’s visit, our students will put together a visual board of the leaders at UUSE using our latest picture directory. Rounding out the day may include opportunity to draw of write simple notes for our young adult care packages, or time outdoors. Jr Youth Group : “Bones and Goldenrod” - Our Junior Youth will further study their nature finds from last week, as well as prep some ethically harvested Goldenrod for next week’s project! Please send youth in footwear and clothes appropriate for walking around outside. High School Youth Group : “Care Packages and Survey Results” - High School Youth Group will meet and continue to work on care packages for young adults, as well as go over survey results for future activities. Young Adult Care Packages : Each year we collect for and put together care packages for our young adults who are moving on with their post-high-school plans. Don’t know what to donate? Ear buds, candy, snacks, cocoa, fidget toys, laundry detergent packs, microwave popcorn and other foods are just a few ideas. Or look for the flyers around the building with the care package symbol, scan the QR code and purchase something from our Amazon wish list ( https://tinyurl.com/2025CarePackages ) by November 2nd. (Donations being collected on site through November 9th.) Write a note of encouragement to any of this year’s recipients: Becky Ayers, Indigo bender, Graham Bornhorst, Logan Breen, Casey Campellone, Lilly-Rose Coleman, Mateo Garcia, Teagan Mabrysmith, Althea Nelson-Woodward, Sadie Nitzan, Max Pawelek, Molly Rourke, Jessica Slogesky and Anya Stolzman. Thank you for your support! See you Sunday! Autumn Happenings : Sept 28: @10:15am: Weekly Children’s Chapel offered between services @11am: CYM programming @11am: Spirit Play Student Orientation (helpful for all students to attend) Sat, Oct 25: Trunk-or-Treat: set-up @ 5:30pm, event runs 6-7:30pm. Open to the public Sun, Oct 26 : Ancestors’ Day Service @ 11am Sat, Nov 1: Mr. Lobster Concert @ 2pm Thurs, Nov 27*: Friendsgiving at UUSE (reach out to me to express interest and receive more details) *tentative Sun, Dec 14: Holiday Music Service @ 11am Sun, Dec 14: CYM Winter Holiday Party @ 12:30pm With Gratitude, Emmy Galbraith Director of Children & Youth Ministry dcym@uuse.org Office: (860)646-5151 Cell: (860)576-7889 CYM Committee Members: Michelle Spadaccini, co-chair Sudha, co-chair Heather Alexson, co-chair Desiree Holian-Borgnis Paula Baker Kaitlyn Guilmette Committee email: uusecym@uuse.org Angela Attardo, CYM Program Assistant CYMAsst@uuse.org

Greetings CYM Families & Friends! Pictured above are some members of our Junior Youth Group, walking the UUSE grounds last week, as they will most Sundays. Here they are scooping bones (likely opossum) out of the vernal spring on the land we steward. We talked about how bones are stories. The youth connected that idea to the “CSI” television show and how scientists use bones to put together a story. Bones are used in modern science, as well as in spirituality rooted in ancient practices. We discovered that science and spirituality overlap a lot more than we might think. And our church is a place to talk about the life cycle with both lenses, like a pair of glasses. This week we will continue to settle into our 2025-2026 programming spaces. Here’s what’s happening in CYM this Sunday, September 28, 2025: NEW THIS SUNDAY : I will lead Children’s Chapel at 10:15 am on the Garden Level! Caregivers may relax with a cup of coffee or book while I bring the children through the ritual of sharing worship space, personal joys and concerns, and introducing Autumnal spiritual themes. Children’s worship is open to all ages, nursery through high school, with or without a parent, as you are comfortable. Items to loan to the autumn altar are most welcome! Nursery : Childcare will be available in our nursery at 11 AM for children age 3 and under. Sunday Service : “Imagining a Congregational Year, Part II” - Because one service on kicking off the congregational year could not possibly cover everything, Rev. Josh will continue exploring the themes he introduced in his September 14th service. Special Guest Music Leader: Andy Ricci. Coordinator: Rev. Josh Pawelek . Time For All Ages : Children and youth in grades 2-12 will attend the beginning of the Sunday service in the Sanctuary on the Main Level. The first two rows on the right are reserved for children and youth to sit together, and families are welcome to join them. After the “Time For All Ages” segment of Sunday service, children and youth will be dismissed to the Garden Level to attend further programming. Spirit Play : “Student Orientation” - Following last week’s Family Orientation, this week our Spirit Play students will attend class, leaving their caregivers at the door. The first story basket of the program year is all about a group of animals in the forest, on their first day of Spirit Play. Young UUs : “Our Congregation” - This Sunday, UUSE Music Director Mary Bopp will visit our Young UUs classroom to teach a simple hymn, “Mediation on Breathing,” which will be sung at the Ancestor’s Day service next month. After Mary’s visit, our students will put together a visual board of the leaders at UUSE using our latest picture directory. Rounding out the day may include opportunity to draw of write simple notes for our young adult care packages, or time outdoors. Jr Youth Group : “Bones and Goldenrod” - Our Junior Youth will further study their nature finds from last week, as well as prep some ethically harvested Goldenrod for next week’s project! Please send youth in footwear and clothes appropriate for walking around outside. High School Youth Group : “Care Packages and Survey Results” - High School Youth Group will meet and continue to work on care packages for young adults, as well as go over survey results for future activities. Young Adult Care Packages : Each year we collect for and put together care packages for our young adults who are moving on with their post-high-school plans. Don’t know what to donate? Ear buds, candy, snacks, cocoa, fidget toys, laundry detergent packs, microwave popcorn and other foods are just a few ideas. Or look for the flyers around the building with the care package symbol, scan the QR code and purchase something from our Amazon wish list ( https://tinyurl.com/2025CarePackages ) by November 2nd. (Donations being collected on site through November 9th.) Write a note of encouragement to any of this year’s recipients: Becky Ayers, Indigo bender, Graham Bornhorst, Logan Breen, Casey Campellone, Lilly-Rose Coleman, Mateo Garcia, Teagan Mabrysmith, Althea Nelson-Woodward, Sadie Nitzan, Max Pawelek, Molly Rourke, Jessica Slogesky and Anya Stolzman. Thank you for your support! See you Sunday! Autumn Happenings : Sept 28: @10:15am: Weekly Children’s Chapel offered between services @11am: CYM programming @11am: Spirit Play Student Orientation (helpful for all students to attend) Sat, Oct 25: Trunk-or-Treat: set-up @ 5:30pm, event runs 6-7:30pm. Open to the public Sun, Oct 26 : Ancestors’ Day Service @ 11am Sat, Nov 1: Mr. Lobster Concert @ 2pm Thurs, Nov 27*: Friendsgiving at UUSE (reach out to me to express interest and receive more details) *tentative Sun, Dec 14: Holiday Music Service @ 11am Sun, Dec 14: CYM Winter Holiday Party @ 12:30pm With Gratitude, Emmy Galbraith Director of Children & Youth Ministry dcym@uuse.org Office: (860)646-5151 Cell: (860)576-7889 CYM Committee Members: Michelle Spadaccini, co-chair Sudha, co-chair Heather Alexson, co-chair Desiree Holian-Borgnis Paula Baker Kaitlyn Guilmette Committee email: uusecym@uuse.org Angela Attardo, CYM Program Assistant CYMAsst@uuse.org

Gathering Music Ambient #13 by Dan Thompson Inspired by Ben Elzerman Welcome and Announcements (Rev. Josh Pawelek) Centering Prelude "Blue Monk" By Thelonius Monk Andy Ricci, guitar Chalice Lighting and Opening Words "There is a Love" By Rebecca Ann Parker Opening Hymn #38 "Morning Has Broken" By Eleanor Farjeon Andy Ricci, song leader Morning has broken like the first morning, blackbird has spoken like the first bird. Praise for the singing! Praise for the morning! Praise for them, springing fresh from the Word! Sweet the rain's new fall sunlit from heaven, like the first dewfall on the first grass. Praise for the sweetness of the wet garden, sprung in completeness where God's feet pass. Mine is the sunlight! Mine is the morning born of the one light Eden saw play! Praise with elation, praise every morning, God's recreation of the new day! Time for All Ages Musical Meditation (Andy Ricci) Joys and Concerns Musical Meditation (Andy Ricci) Offering Our September Community Outreach Ministry recipients are the Manchester Latino Affairs Council and She Leads Justice. Manchester Latino Affairs Council The Manchester Latino Affairs Council (M.L.A.C.) was established in January of 2007. Its current mission is to address social issues with a focus on diversity, inclusivity and equality within Manchester's Latino community. She Leads Justice She Leads Justice advocates for under-resourced, marginalized women in Connecticut. They work to close the civil legal justice gap and to create state policy for economic security. Formerly known as the Connecticut Women's Education and Legal Fund, their work supports women who identify as cisgender and transgender, and non-binary individuals, as well as people of all marginalized gender identities. Offering Music "Stonewall" By Andy Ricci Sermon "Imagining a Congregational Year, Part II" Rev. Josh Pawelek Including "World of Hurt" By the Drive-By Truckers Andy Ricci, vocals and guitar Josh Pawelek, spoken word Closing Hymn #95 "There is More Love" African American hymn Andy Ricci, song leader There is more love somewhere. There is more love somewhere. I'm gonna keep on 'til I find it. There is more love somewhere. There is more hope somewhere... There is more peace somewhere... There is more joy somewhere... Extinguishing the Chalice Closing Circle May faith in the spirit of life And hope for the community of earth And love of the light in each other Be ours now, and in all the days to come.

Gathering Music (Mary Bopp) Welcome & Announcements Centering Prelude #188 "Come, Come Whoever You Are" Music by Lynn Ungar Arranged & performed by Mary Bopp Chalice Lighting Building Belonging by Rev. Dr. David Breeden Welcome, friends-- Newcomers, old-timers, seekers, skeptics, saints of habit and rebels of the heart Here, we gather not because we think the same, but because we choose to journey together. Belonging is not something given--it is something we build, with open hands and open hearts. It is made in the sharing of stories, the holding of silences, the courage to show up as we are. Here, we practice and radical hospitality--not of perfection, but of presence. May we make this place a shelter for the soul, a workshop for justice, a sanctuary where love is not merely spoken but lived. Deeply. again--in trust, in hope, in the spirit of belonging. Introduction to the Service Opening Hymn #360 "Here We Have Gathered" Words by Alicia S. Carpenter Music per Genevan psalter Here we have gathered, gathered side by side, Circle of kinship, come and step inside! May all who seek here find a kindly word; May all who speak here feel they have been heard. Sing now together this, our hearts' own song. Here we have gathered, called to celebrate Days of a lifetime, matters small and great; We of all ages, women, children, men, Infants and sages, sharing what we can. Sing now together this, our hearts' own song. Life has its battles, sorrows, and regret; But in the shadows, let us not forget; We who now gather know each other's pain; Kindness can heal us: as we give, we gain. Sing now in friendship this, our hearts' own song. Time for All Ages Selections from Rumple Buttercup by Matthew Gray Gubler Welcoming Visitors and Joys and Concerns Musical Response Prayer "Belonging" (a responsive reading) Rev. Dr. David Breeden One: Belonging is the warmth of a hand held out, All: the nod across the room that says: I see you. One: Belonging is not agreement but the invitation to the table; All: the invitation to be whole. One: Belonging is the story that changes because you arrived, All: the circle that widens because we are here. One: Belonging is the lilt in the song sung together, All: made more true because it holds your note. One: Belonging is a promise: not that you must become us, All: but that you already are. Offering Our September Community Outreach Ministry recipients are the Manchester Latino Affairs Council and She Leads Justice. Manchester Latino Affairs Council The Manchester Latino Affairs Council (M.L.A.C.) was established in January of 2007. Its current mission is to address social issues with a focus on diversity, inclusivity and equality within Manchester's Latino community. She Leads Justice She Leads Justice advocates for under-resourced, marginalized women in Connecticut. They work to close the civil legal justice gap and to create state policy for economic security. Formerly known as the Connecticut Women's Education and Legal Fund, their work supports women who identify as cisgender and transgender, and non-binary individuals, as well as people of all marginalized gender identities. Offering Music "We Can Be Kind" Words & Music by David Friedman Sung by Gerald Dillenbeck Sermon "Radical Welcome" Stacey Musulin Closing Hymn #323 "Break Not the Circle" Words by Fred Kaan Music by Thomas Benjamin Break not the circle of enabling love Where people grow, forgiven and forgiving; Break not the circle, make it wider still, 'Till it includes, embraces all the living. Come, wonder at this love that comes to life, Where words of freedom are with humor spoken, And people keep no score of wrong and guilt, But will that human bonds remain unbroken . Join then the movement of the love that frees, 'Till people of whatever race or nation Will truly be themselves, stand on their feet, See eye to eye with laughter and elation. Extinguishing the Chalice A Theology of Welcome Rev. Dr. David Breeden Let's be the welcome we crave-- open hearts, arms outstretched. Let's embody radical welcome, unquestioning love. Let's be the welcome we crave-- deeply hearing voices and hearts. Let's be the welcome we crave-- enriching, understanding. Let us embody the community we crave. Closing Circle May faith in the spirit of life And hope for the community of earth And love of the light in each other Be ours now, and in all the days to come.

UUSE's Oak Burl Chalice, on the globe table in the garden level chapel We are in the midst of launching our congregational year. I am using this morning’s sermon as well as my September 28 th  sermon to imagine what the year will look and feel like. There are a few things I really want to do with these two sermons, and one thing I don’t want to do. Broadly speaking, I do want  to convey excitement about everything we have planned: worship, concerts, movie nights, game nights, classes, small groups—all the ways we grow and learn together—meeting new people, building new relationships, engaging in the wider community. I do want  to emphasize our September ministry theme, building belonging . As I said in my newsletter column, I like having this theme front and center in our hearts and minds as we launch the congregational year. It’s a reminder that, all year long, one of the most critical aspects of congregational life is the way we welcome, include and empower people, the way we build and strengthen our community here at 153 West Vernon St., and the way we work to strengthen relationships beyond our meeting house. I do want to express my joy at being amongst you after my summer vacation and study leave. I do want  to express my enthusiasm and excitement to be practicing ministry in and with a congregation that, by so many measures, is thriving.           And then there is one thing I really don’t want to do this morning, but it would be spiritually negligent for me as your minister to not do it, which is talk about authoritarianism in the United States. I notice we often use euphemisms to talk about it. We refer to “the difficult times in which we live.” We refer to “everything going on in the nation and the world right now.” We say, “I can’t watch the news anymore.” So I will say it as clearly and as plainly as I can, because we need to call it by its true name: Every day, the United States government, under the leadership of President Donald Trump and the architects of Project 2025, slides more deeply into authoritarianism, enabled by a federal judiciary and a Congress that, on the whole, refuse to and/or fail to use the tools available to them to limit the excesses of the executive branch.           I recognize there are many who will accuse me of being an out-of-touch liberal (and much worse), that I am contributing to the polarization plaguing our country, that I am being divisive, that I am somehow brainwashed by woke ideology. I really don’t know how to counter those arguments, except to say that I am trying to respond to facts. For example, it is a fact that masked government agents are abducting people off the streets without warrants and detaining them without any semblance of due process. That is evidence of authoritarianism, not democracy. That is evidence of a failure to follow the Constitution which requires due process. I want  to launch our congregational year with joy, pride and excitement. I really don’t want to talk about authoritarianism. But it is our reality now. It is shaping our congregational life, and it requires a faithful response. (I note that our Unitarian Universalist General Assembly passed an Action of Immediate Witness this past June in Baltimore entitled “Faithful Defiance of Authoritarianism, a Call to Action: Reaffirming Our Covenant for Democracy and Freedom.” ) So, in imagining the congregational year, I understand it is my task (though certainly not mine alone) to articulate—first to myself and then to you—what it means to stay true to our Unitarian Universalist principles, values and traditions as a liberal religious congregation in the midst authoritarianism.           Hint: there is nothing in our principles or values or our Unitarian and Universalist traditions of theological and spiritual freedom, innovation and searching, our traditions that center human dignity, our traditions that align us with human rights and social and environmental justice movements—nothing!—that would prompt us to comply with authoritarianism. Nothing. Everything about our principles, values and traditions calls us to resist authoritarianism.           And given the political assassination earlier this week, I feel compelled to say what should go without saying: our principles, values and traditions call us to engage in nonviolent  resistance. I am convinced violence only leads to more violence. In resisting authoritarianism, the central question for me is how we do it with love, compassion and empathy. I said talking about it is the one thing I really don’t want to do this morning. There’s some nuance here. Some of it is emotional. As I’ve had time to pause, reflect, read, volunteer and pray during my vacation and study leave, I’ve realized that I, like many of you, have big feelings about the rise of authoritarianism in our beloved country and the weakening of our (admittedly imperfect) democratic institutions.  It’s hard to talk about it when the feelings are so big. I am grieving. I am angry. I am frightened. I am also mindful that my fear as a middle-aged, upper middle-class, white, cis man is not the same as the fear of those directly targeted by the new administration’s policies: my transgender and queer siblings whose identities are being erased, my siblings of color whose history is being erased, my immigrant siblings who are being disappeared, my low-income siblings facing the loss of Medicaid and SNAP, my siblings with disabilities, my siblings who’ve lost jobs due to federal budget cuts and the economic impact of the tariffs. Even so, my fear and all my feelings are still big and, frankly, I am not entirely sure how to bring them into the pulpit. I don’t want to rage in this pulpit, especially when so many of you come here in search of respite and peace. I don’t want to weep uncontrollably in this pulpit. I don’t want to panic in this pulpit. But I feel all these feelings. AND THEY ARE BIG. I would much rather feel the joy, pride and excitement of our homecoming, our new congregational year, our beloved community. I will get there. We will get there. More nuance: Through my engagement in the wider community as your minister since 2003, through the engagement of our Social Justice / Anti-Oppression Committee with coalitions like the Greater Hartford Interfaith Action Alliance, Connecticut for All and HUSKY for Immigrants, through the engagement of our Sustainable Living Committee with organizations like the Interreligious Eco-Justice Network, through our work at Verplanck Elementary School, through our work with the Manchester Interfaith Social Action Committee—and much more—our congregation is part of a loosely-organized statewide progressive advocacy structure. This structure has evolved over decades. Its goal is to build political, social and economic power that can be used to make progressive change in Connecticut. Over the years, as participants in this structure, we’ve organized to win better access to safe, affordable healthcare, affordable housing, affordable childcare, excellent and well-funded k-12 and higher education, tax equity, criminal justice reform, marriage equality, the addition of ‘gender identity’ to the state anti-discrimination statutes, environmental justice, etc. I’m very proud of the victories we’ve won, and very mindful of where we’ve fallen short, what the barriers to success are and where we need to build more power. But here’s the rub: this loosely-organized statewide structure is not designed to resist an authoritarian federal government. We’ve never imagined, for example, that a significant portion of the approximately 6 billion federal Medicaid dollars Connecticut receives every year could disappear overnight. We’re not ready for that kind of health care catastrophe. We’re not structured to address it. Not every recipient will lose benefits, but what if half do? What happens if four or five hundred thousand neighbors lose access to health care? What happens to them? What happens to emergency rooms? What happens to the hospitals that will close without those Medicaid dollars coming to the state? What happens to the associated businesses, the doctor groups, the nurses, the PCAs, the nursing homes, the health care unions? And that’s just the Medicaid question. There are hundreds, if not thousands of ways authoritarianism is manifesting. There are new expressions of it every day: firing federal officials deemed uncooperative or disloyal, recission of funds Congress has already appropriated, deployments of federal troops to American cities, ICE abductions, supportive Supreme Court shadow docket decisions with no explanations, disregard for long-standing scientific consensus, decimation of the Centers for Disease Control and the National Institutes of Health, halting of renewable energy projects, threats against the media, threats against universities. People complain that the Democratic Party has been ineffectual, but I argue that pretty much all of us who care about the survival of our democracy have been ineffectual, not because we aren’t committed—we are—but because the underlying nation-wide organizational structure needed to resist a genuinely authoritarian executive doesn’t yet exist. It will come into existence, of that I am confident. But it’s not here yet. When I say I don’t want to talk about it, what I mean is I don’t want to spend significant time and energy in the pulpit exploring all the specific ways the authoritarian government in Washington, DC is undermining our democracy. It would be easy to do that, though I am not sure how much you would learn from me that you don’t already know; and more importantly, we’d be no closer to discerning our place in emerging structures designed to nonviolently resist authoritarianism. That’s what I want to preach about. What new structures are emerging? Where do we fit in? How do we contribute? That’s the discernment I want us to engage in this congregational year. That’s what I want to preach about. I don’t want Executive branch cruelty, racism, lies and corruption setting my preaching agenda. Over the decades we have built a strong, thriving, vibrant, growing, caring, fun, creative, principled, justice-seeking, earth- and land-stewarding Unitarian Universalist community here atop Elm Hill on the Manchester/Vernon line, up above the Hockanum River . We’ve served as a beacon of liberal religious principles and values, compassion, service and love for two generations. We have a lot to offer the emerging resistance movement. I want to preach about that. I want our congregational year to be about that. We have deep and always-deepening institutional relationships in Manchester and across the state: Power Up CT, MLAC, AABAC, GHIAA, Moral Monday CT, Connecticut for All, CT Students for a Dream, Hartford Deportation Defense, HUSKY for Immigrants, IREJN, SEIU 1199, 32BJ, AFL CIO CT, Equality CT, Working Families Party, Third Act, She Leads Justice, Universal Health Care Foundation. And we’re always getting to know new organizations, one of my favorites being Kamora’s Cultural Corner in Hartford. Don’t worry if you don’t recognize all the initials. Just know that everyone in the structure is trying to figure out how to conduct their work in ways that effectively build a nonviolent resistance movement. I want to preach about that. I want our congregational year to be about that. Then there’s the role this congregation plays in keeping each of us healthy, whole, and hopeful; the role it plays in reducing our anxiety, in calming our bodies, in soothing our souls, in accompanying us in our sadness and grief, in validating our anger. Some of my studies this summer looked at the ways stress and trauma get lodged in our bodies, and how simple practices like breathing, singing, chanting, humming, and rocking back and forth can help dislodge it, making healing more accessible. (See My Grandmother's Hands by Rezmaa Menakem and Liberated to the Bone, by Susan Raffo .) When we engage in such practices in groups they are even more potent than when we engage individually. So I’ve been expanding my understanding of the purpose of worship. I am beginning to understand worship more clearly as an invitation to calm and dislodge the stress and trauma that are part and parcel of living under authoritarianism. Let this be a house of peace, a house of respite, a house of healing in trying times. I want to preach about that! I want our congregational year to be about that. Some beloved little one said it well.... Now, imagine, as I’ve heard many of you say, things get worse before they get better. Imagine a few years from now, people out in the wider community are tired, angry, fearful, panicking, grieving. Imagine people are struggling. Imagine people are feeling lonely and isolated, distrustful, not able to talk openly and honestly with their neighbors. They know something needs to change, something needs to happen, but they’re just not sure what it is. And all along, we’ve been doing our work as a spiritual community, figuring out how to be true to our principles and values in public; figuring out how we fit into the movement to end authoritarian rule in the United States. All along we’ve been caring for each other, loving each other, breaking bread with each other, singing, chanting, humming and rocking back and forth with each other, facing our fears together, expressing our rage together, crying our tears together, calming our bodies together, settling in, relaxing, breathing together, building up our strength, our resilience and our resolve together, remaining hopeful together, being in the struggle together. In the midst of authoritarianism, people need what I’m describing. People will want to belong. I want to preach about that. I want our congregational year to be about that! Amen and blessed be.

Gathering Music (Mary Bopp)   Welcome and Announcements (Rev. Josh Pawelek)   Centering   Prelude “Give Yourself to Love” by Kate Wolf Nancy Madar, guitar & vocals Joe Madar, vocals   Chalice Lighting and Opening Words “One Love” by the Rev. Hope Johnson   Opening Hymn #1053 “How Could Anyone?” By Libby Roderick   How could anyone ever tell you you were anything less than beautiful? How could anyone ever tell you you were less than whole? How could anyone fail to notice that your loving is a miracle? How deeply you’re connected to my soul.   Time for All Ages   Musical Meditation (Mary Bopp)   Joys and Concerns   Musical Response “Prayer for Connection” Words by Cyndi Krupa Music by Mary Bopp   May peace, light and love Infuse all living beings With a feeling of connection And knowing we are one.   Offering Our September Community Outreach Ministry recipients are the Manchester Latino Affairs Council and She Leads Justice.   Manchester Latino Affairs Council  The Manchester Latino Affairs Council (M.L.A.C.) was established in January of 2007.  Its current mission is to address social issues with a focus on diversity, inclusivity and equality within Manchester’s Latino community.   She Leads Justice She Leads Justice advocates for under-resourced, marginalized women in Connecticut. They work to close the civil legal justice gap and to create state policy for economic security. Formerly known as the Connecticut Women's Education and Legal Fund, their work supports women who identify as cisgender and transgender, and non-binary individuals, as well as people of all marginalized gender identities.   Offering Music "Song for Judith" By Judy Collins Nancy Madar, guitar & vocals Sermon “Imagining a Congregational Year” Rev. Josh Pawelek   Closing Song #1057 “Go Lifted Up” By Mortimer B. Barron   Go lifted up, Love bless your way, moonlight, starlight guide your journey into peace and the brightness of day.   Extinguishing the Chalice “The Flame in Our Hearts” Words by Josh Pawelek, Music by Mary Bopp   The flame in our hearts, never ceases burning.   Closing Circle (with music by Nancy Madar) May faith in the spirit of life And hope for the community of earth And love of the light in each other Be ours now and in all the days to come.

Gathering Music (Mary Bopp) Welcome, Announcements (Rev. Josh Pawelek) Centering (Emmy Galbraith) Prelude “Anthem” by Leonard Cohen Led by the Homecoming Singers Forget your perfect offering, (forget your perfect offering) Ring the bells that you can ring, (ring the bells that you can ring) There is a crack in everything, (there is a crack in everything) That’s how, (that’s how) The light, (the light) Gets in, (All:) That’s how the light gets in Chalice Lighting and Opening Words (Rev. Josh Pawelek) “Gather” by James Crews Introduction to the Service (Emmy Galbraith) Opening Hymn #1028 Fire of Commitment Words: Mary Katherine Morn and Jason Shelton Music: Jason Shelton From the light of days remembered burns a beacon bright and clear Guiding hands and hearts and spirits into faith set free from fear. When the fire of commitment sets our mind and soul a blaze When our hunger and our passion meet to call us on our way When we live with deep assurance of the flame that burns within, Then our promise finds fulfillment and our future can begin. From the stories of our living rings a song both brave and free, Calling pilgrims still to witness to the life of liberty. When the fire of commitment sets our mind and soul a blaze When our hunger and our passion meet to call us on our way When we live with deep assurance of the flame that burns within, Then our promise finds fulfillment and our future can begin. From the dreams of youthful vision comes a new, prophetic voice, Which demands a deeper justice built by our courageous choice When the fire of commitment sets our mind and soul a blaze When our hunger and our passion meet to call us on our way When we live with deep assurance of the flame that burns within, Then our promise finds fulfillment and our future can begin. Back to School Slideshow Blessing of the Backpacks Joys & Concerns Musical Meditation (Mary Bopp) Offering Recipients: The September Community Outreach Ministry recipients are the Manchester Latino Affairs Council and She Leads Justice. She Leads Justice She Leads Justice advocates for under-resourced, marginalized women in Connecticut. They work to close the civil legal justice gap and to create state policy for economic security. Formerly known as the Connecticut Women's Education and Legal Fund, their work supports women who identify as cisgender and transgender, and non-binary individuals, as well as people of all marginalized gender identities.   Manchester Latino Affairs Council   The Manchester Latino Affairs Council (M.L.A.C.) was established in January of 2007.  Its current mission is to address social issues with a focus on diversity, inclusivity and equality within Manchester’s Latino community. Offering Music “Highland Cathedral”  By Ulrich Roever and Michael Korb Benjamin Elzerman (Scottish Bagpipes) Vera Elzerman (Snare Drum) UU Principles & Values   UUSE Covenant Chant “Love is the Spirit of This Church” words by James Vila Blake, music by Mary Bopp Love is the spirit of this church and service its law. This is our great covenant: To dwell together in peace.  Love is the spirit of this church and service its law. To seek the truth in love, and to help one another.  Love is the spirit of this church and service its law. Reflection (Emmy Galbraith & Rev. Josh Pawelek) Closing Hymn #118 This Little Light of Mine Words & music: African American spiritual This little light of mine, I’m gonna let it shine. This little light of mine, I’m gonna let it shine. This little light of mine, I’m gonna let it shine. Let it shine, let it shine, let it shine. Ev’rywhere I go, I’m gonna let it shine. Ev’rywhere I go, I’m gonna let it shine. Ev’rywhere I go, I’m gonna let it shine. Let it shine, let it shine, let it shine. Building up a world, I’m gonna let it shine. Building up a world, I’m gonna let it shine. Building up a world, I’m gonna let it shine. Let it shine, let it shine, let it shine. Extinguishing the Chalice Closing Circle May faith in the spirit of life And hope for the community of earth And love of the light in each other Be ours now, and in all the days to come.